REPARENTING, REBIRTHING YOUR INNER CHILD & ALIGNMENT WITH GREAT SPIRT CEREMONY

All for the love of healthy relationships based on respect, full acceptance, pure gratitude & un-conditiol love

Your inner infant and inner child will always be a part of the matrix of your mastery. Restoring these aspects of self to their Divine Essence requires you, as a mature adult, to love those unhealed parts into the Light. In this article you will receive great understanding of how this works and loving assistance for achieving this goal. Remember to let it be real and loving. If you make it just a mental process, it will never go deep enough to work. Loving your inner child means loving every emotion and every reaction in life into healing through acceptance, love, and compassion. It is the stuff of which self-love is made.

This article contains a guided process for clearing your etheric umbilical cord to your physical mother. After birth, it is natural for a child to maintain an etheric umbilical cord with the mother until 8-10 years of age. At that time, ideally the child will have learned how to ground on its own, and the soul connection should be fully made in the body. And in an ideal situation, the child will have been given enough love and soul essence validation to give it a sense of who it is, and it does not need the umbilical cord with the mother anymore. In many ancient cultures, age of 8-10 years was also a time of a rite of passage. For example, in the ancient Greek culture, the child would braid grasses to make a rope and then go off on a hillside journey overnight with the maternal grandmother. At some point along the journey to their destination, the grandmother would talk about how it is time for the Earth Mother, the Goddess, to be the child's mother now. Grandmother would explain what the physical umbilical cord was, then what the etheric umbilical cord was, and that the child no longer needed it. Then the grandmother would have the child get out the rope she had made and hold it to her navel. She would tell the child, "Imagine that this rope is like the umbilical cord that is still connected to mother's navel and womb. It is time to remove it now. Pull it free. Now throw it as hard as you can over the mountainside. As the rope dissolves into the earth, you will develop a new etheric bond with the Goddess of Earth, who is part of the Mother Goddess of us all." Imagine having that understanding at age 8-10.

What happens in our culture today is that very few individuals have been fully nurtured by the bonding with mother. Therefore, when you have not learned how to ground fully, and your soul essence does not have a full connection in your body through love and validation—or when the mother is over-possessive—you end up maintaining the etheric umbilical cord far beyond its healthy purpose. Sometimes this old umbilical cord is dried up and may have little roots attached to it. You may need to visualise a warm, melted, violet, salve-like energy going in and softening the roots as you pull it out graciously. Once the old etheric umbilical cord is removed, even if your mother is not still living, you will visualise removing the other end from her navel. Then you will give the umbilical cord to your Higher Self. Your Higher Self will dissolve the energy and return your connection with your mother to one that is purely on a Higher Self level.

By the time you reach the age of twenty-one, you are intended to be the parent of your own inner child. At that point you are intended to have a spiritual connection with Holy Mother, Holy Father of All That Is. Ideally, you no longer behave as a child of your mother and father; you behave as a child of God/Goddess/ All That Is. So what we are doing is like a rite of passage & healing process. Before coming into any lifetime, every soul makes a contract with its future parents to be their child. You actually contract with them and ensure that they will fulfil their role in a certain way. You agree to fulfil your role in a certain way as well. Because all souls come into new lives anchoring the unfinished karmas from other lifetimes, you choose parents who will help you re-anchor these karmas through re-enactment and eventual healing. Therefore, you are going to be burning the contracts with your mother first, then your father, ending your contracts with them to serve as parents. That frees you and your parents as well from your karmic roles and unhealthy psychic ties. This is done from a place of moving beyond forgiveness, pure gratitude, full acceptance, unconditional love & respect rather than from an attitude of "You're fired!" The correct attitude is one of thanking them for fulfilling the job that you originally signed on for them to do. You let them know that you do not need them to serve that purpose anymore. On the left side you add your name on the contract, right side their names and also your grandfather/ grandmother from both sides to cancel any karmic ties to your ancestral lineage Then you burn the contract, setting the intention to moving beyond forgiveness, pure gratitude, full acceptance, unconditional love & respect rather than from an attitude of "You're fired!"

Map of Consciousness from doctor David Hawkins

Here's antonyms of all 60 negative emotions of the Emotion Code Chart. That way you can bring deeper understanding and release them more easily. Make sure to also check the Emotion Code Definition of Emotions PDF available on google.

abandonment = adopted, cherishes

betrayal = honesty, loyalty

forlorn = cheerful, hopeful

lost = seen, found

love unreceived = love accepted

effort unreceived = effort acknowledge

heartache = joy, happiness

insecurity = at ease, calm

overjoy (momentary joy right after feeling down) = peace

vulnerability (keeping inside your vulnerability) = protected

anxiety = calm, certainty

despair = hapiness, joy

disgust = liking, admiration

nervousness = calm, ease, relax

worry = calm, confident

failure = success, improvement

helplessness = helpful

hopelessness = hopeful

lack of control = surrender

low self esteem = confidence, esteem

crying (avoiding crying) = feeling

discouragement = encouragement, hopeful

rejection = allowance, welcome

sadness = delight, joy

sorrow = happiness, blessed

confusion = clarity, composure

defensiveness = unprotected

grief = grateful, blessed

self abuse = self kindness, self respect

stubbornness = flexibility, openness

anger = calm, ease

bitterness = contentment, sweetness

guilt = honor, respect

hatred = admiration, approval

resentment = calm, friendliness

depression = contentment

frustration = support, faith

indecisiveness = trust, confidence, certainty

panic = composure, calmness

taken for granted = appreciated

blaming = praise, endorse

dread = welcomed, allowing

fear = ease, love

horror = calmness

peeved = happy

conflict = harmony, agreement

creative insecurity = creator confidence

terror = calmness

unsupported = supported

wishy washy = flavorsome

humiliation = esteem, honor

jealousy = understanding, unconcern

longing = satisfaction

lust = satisfaction

overwhelm = encourage, surrender

pride = dignity

shame = respect, esteem

shock = composure, calm

unworthy = worthy, valued

worthlessness = worth, practical

Falsehood emotions to be released from our consciousness to the New 5D Earth 

When you have completed with birth mother and father, you will call in your spirit mother and, later, spirit father. You will create a new bonding with your spirit mother, who then begins to assist you in healing mother wounds without your birth mother's having any responsibility for this process. With the father you will be removing a third chakra cord, giving it to Higher Self, and then bringing in a new spirit father. Of course, this does not mean that you cannot still have this person in your life in a chosen role.

But psychically the old connection is ended in a parent/child sense and a brand new timeline has started, one that moves beyond forgiveness, pure gratitude, full acceptance, unconditional love & respect.

Climbing Mount Batur with my parents to see the holy spirit sunrise. Pilgrimages to higher levels of unconditional love

When you start tapping into the akashic records, the first thing you learn and become aware of is that:

Life is like a painting, that has already been painted. And we are inside, you are inside, I am inside the painting of my life that has already been painted.

And if we don’t like the painting of our lives that have already been painted, we have to dive into our subconscious mind which is held by the inner child.

To remove from the painting of our lives, what we don’t like or prefer to change for the better, more preferred painting of our lives that have already been painted.

If you had siblings who were involved in the first 8-10 years of your life, you might also want to remove the energy cords between your solar plexus and their solar plexus. What often happens in family dynamics is the first born always gets all the love, energy, time and attention first, then when the 2nd born arrives all that love, energy, time and attention goes to the new born who is more dependent on the parents. What is inevitable is that the 1st born could experience love care attention unreceived which could lead to jealousy due to feeling fear of being ignored, failure, inadequacy or rejected as the 2nd new born receives more love, energy, care, attention then the first born. When there would arrive a 3rd born the new born will get more love, care, attention and there for the 2nd born could experience love unreceived which could lead to fear of rejection, failure, inadequacy or ignorance due to the 3rd new born being more depending on the parents. The energy cords vibrating on old traumatic experiences of jealousy, envy, betrayal, being silenced, having alack of faith in oneself and the list goes on.

Whether you have been given to adoption as a baby, your parents might have split up, mom cheated on dad, dad cheated on mom. Alcohol abuse lead to falsehood emotions entering your sensitive energy bodies. Ancestral lineage of negative experiences of war, being burned at the stake, crucified, tortured, killed as a white or black witch, being enslaved and killed in roman times. Everything you have experienced in your own past lives or the past lives emotions that you have taken on from your ancestral DNA are coming to the surface to be revealed and healed. For your soul, your higher self, your guardian angels, ascended masters, archangels, Elohim there are no failures, inadequacies, mistakes, fear does not exist in the 5th dimension and higher. They have never seen you making any mistakes, inadequacies or failures, they have only seen you learning and growing in knowing how and better not in knowing how not to do certain things. So from this point forth, mistakes, inadequacies or failures do not exist anymore, they are the illusion that we have been made believe to be true by the darkness.

If you have distanced yourself from your parents, you will be attracting other people who will be reflecting the unhealed falsehood emotions back to yourself. Intimate relationships also reflect our falsehood emotions back to us to release & transcend these emotions that will stay with the old Earth. The New 5D Earth will be an Earth with LOVE consciousness as the baseline consciousness. This is why we still have a long way to go as collectively we are still on 175 PRIDE consciousness as our baseline.

Relationship beyond forgiveness, pure gratitude, full acceptance, unconditional love & respect can be so much more JOY-FULL

When you are doing inner child work, you can always call on this new spirit mother and father to assist, along side your own higher self. Some people like to create an image of a home in which the inner child lives with the spirit parents. There is an outdoor playground, and the child has its own room. The adult you can go there in meditation to visit. Of course, it is really a place in your own energy field. You may prefer to envision the child growing up in your own body, calling on the spirit mother and father each time you imagine going to visit. Whatever approach you take to inner child work, creating times for you and your inner child to restore that matrix of trust can be very important. You, as the physical parent, help the child learn to trust adults by never breaking promises and by showing genuine love and caring. When you need nurturing, when you need assistance with healing, call in your spirit parents. They can place their etheric hands on the child within your body consciousness and assist in your healing process. They can come and talk to the child. Basically, from now on it is up to you how you develop your own relationship with them; it will be unique. Sometime you might like to call them in and just ask them, "What is the best way for me to connect with you? What is the best way for me to make the best use of this connection with you?" I am sure you will receive what you need.

This process has helped me tremendous in my relationship with my parents, brother and sister. It’s inevitable that we accumulate negative childhood traumatic experiences that require healing. Diving into every nook and cranny of your highest creation in this physical existence and transcending these negative energies by moving yourself to a place that moves beyond forgiveness, pure gratitude, full acceptance, unconditional love & respect is the only way to fully healing your inner child & subconscious mind. I have guided many clients through this rite of passage & healing process. For those who have been guided by me through this process, here is the process for you to keep remembering. If you have not been guided through this process by myself, Dolphin Star Temple Mystery School practitioner or another qualified Alchemy & Bodywork level 2 practitioner please don’t do this process on your own as you need to make sure to have all relevant physic information on the contracts before you cancel them as otherwise the proceeds won’t work or won’t be effective. You can repeat this process as many times as you’d like to. When after this ceremony new triggers arise between you and your physical parents, you can do this process again. To healing another layer of the subconscious mind that is held by the inner child. We are healing in the layers of a union. To graduate through the falsehood emotions we have to sometimes transcend situations, experiences and falsehood emotions 12 times, 12 dimensional levels, 12 octaves in every dimension. Read through some of the Soul Scans of people who have reached high levels of consciousness on the Map of Consciousness and you’ll see that each and every person has top go through healing childhood trauma, falsehood emotions by redesigning them by loving, accepting and transcending what arises.

Reparenting, rebirthing & alignment with Spirit mother & father ceremony:

  1. Close your eyes and go into a meditative space. Breathe deeply until you can fill your entire body with breath and presence.

  2. Check your grounding and replace your grounding cord if necessary. Make sure your aura is two to three feet around you in every direction, including beneath your feet.

  3. Ask the Lords of Light of the Rainbow Flames to surround your aura with Rainbow Flames, balancing all energy bodies and creating a filter around your aura as a boundary protection.

  4. Ask the Dolphin Star Temple Higher Council of Light to assist you now as you tune in to your umbilical area. Ask them to assist you in the release of any remaining umbilical connection, or old energies, from your physical mother.

  5. Bring one of your physical hands, or both, to your navel area. Before you remove this umbilical cord, ask that your mother's spirit and your mother's guardian angel come and stand in front of you about six to eight feet away. Take a moment to tune in to her presence there. Address your mother by telling her that it is time for you to be fully responsible for your own inner child. It is time to relieve her of any responsibility for your life, including any responsibility for healing what she might have done in the past.

  6. Anything she did not give you that you would have liked, let her know that it is done now, that there is nothing else that you will ever require of her, and that she is free to fulfill her own path in her own way..

  7. Tell her you know that before you were born, you made a contract with her for you to be the child and her to be the mother, and that you know that she fulfilled the role that she was intended to fulfil.

  8. Tell her that she is not being punished in any way, or blamed, in the releasing of this contract. It is time for your relationship to move to a new level.

  9. Even if you still feel anger or blame toward her, tell her that you take responsibility for coming to a place of forgiveness and gratitude, even if you cannot fully do it
    now.

  10. If you have forgiven, tell her "I forgive you" for anything that seemed inappropriate or wrong in any way, that you release her from any karmic hold you might have on her.

  11. Thank her for doing the job that you contracted for her to do.

  12. Imagine your contract as if it were a legal document. It is the contract for her to be your mother and all the details of what that entails. Rip it into pieces. Then ask the Lords of Light of the Rainbow Flames to create a huge bonfire, and burn the contract in the bonfire.

  13. Pull the umbilical cord out of your navel area. If there are any roots or dryness, run some salve like violet light into the area as you pull the cord out. Then hold that end of the umbilical cord in one of your hands and pull out the other end from your mother's navel. When it is completely removed, hand both ends of that cord to your Higher Self. Ask your Higher Self to assist in releasing all of the past energies, so that your connection with your mother is now on a Higher Self level only and free of the karmic ties. Send golden light to fill the hole left in her aura, then fill in the hole in your own aura and navel area. Ask your mother's guardian angel to take her wherever she needs to go.

  14. Now call in the Holy Mother of All That Is. Ask Her to send you one of her divine female guides or representatives, whether an angel or an Ascended Master. Ask Her to send your divine spirit mother. When that being comes, ask her to hold your left hand. It may be a being you recognise, or it may not. When you feel the spiritual mother connection, ask her three times whether she is of the Light. If she says no, ask her to leave, and then send out another request commanding that only your spirit mother who is of the Light come forth.

  15. Ask this being if she has a name. Listen.

  16. She is going to place one hand on your heart, to make a heart and soul connection with you now. At the same time, ask her to give you a new umbilical cord of light so that you can maintain this spirit mother connection, and she can assist you in beginning to transmute any remaining issues you may have with your mother. As you call on your spirit mother source to assist you —not only in healing your mother wounds but in helping your inner child align with Holy Mother in a sacred and loving way let yourself fill with the new light. Take a nice deep breath through the umbilical area up into the soul area in the center of your chest. Spirit mother is going to stand nearby as you move on.

  17. Ask for your physical father's spirit to be brought in, along with his guardian angel. Ask that he stand about six to eight feet in front of you.

  18. Tune in to your solar plexus area and feel or imagine the psychic cord between you and your physical father. Before you remove that connection, speak to him in the way you did with your mother. Let him know that before you were born, and before conception, you agreed to be his child. Tell him you are aware that you made a contract for him to fulfill the role that he has fulfilled, and therefore you release all attachment to holding on to any blame, or judgment, knowing that he simply did the job he agreed to do.

  19. Let him know that you forgive him for all mistakes and damage. If you cannot fully feel the forgiveness now, tell him that you take responsibility for coming to full forgiveness. His responsibility toward you as a child is done, because as an adult it is time for you to take care of your inner child and to connect to the Holy Father.

  20. Let him know that you are releasing any and all attachment to his needing to suffer or repay you for anything he has done. His karmic debts are done as far as you are concerned. He is free to pursue his path in his own way now.

  21. Thank him for doing the best he could and for being willing to take on the role of father. Rip the contract with your father into many pieces. Burn it in the rainbow bonfire. 

  22. 12. Now remove the cord from your solar plexus. When you have removed your end, hold it, and remove his end. Remember—if it has roots or is tight, run some warm violet light salve energy into the area to help loosen it. When both ends are removed, give it to your Higher Self, asking your Higher Self to help dissolve all the energies of the past so that you are connected to him only on a Higher Self level. Now send your father a little beam of golden light to fill up that hole where his cord was, and fill up the space in your own aura with golden light, all the way into your chakra. Ask your father's guardian angel to take him wherever he needs to go now.

  23. Call upon the Holy Father of All That Is. Ask Him to send one of his guides or representatives, whether an angel or an Ascended Master, to send your spirit father. Ask that this new spirit father come forth now and take your right hand. When you feel the connection, ask this being three times if he is of the Light. If he says no, ask him to leave. Ask that only your divine spirit father of the Light come.

  24. When that connection is made, ask his name. Tell this beloved one that you would like him to assist you in healing any and all father wounds that remain, and that you would like him to assist you in maintaining connection to the Holy Father of All That Is. Take a little time with him to feel this new connection.

  25. Ask your spirit mother and spirit father to hold hands with you in a circle. Allow the energy to flow between the three of you. Make a pact with them to assist you in restoring your inner child self to the magical child, full of innocence and brightness, purity, joy, creativity, awe, and wonder. Ask them to help restore this inner child to remembering that it is a divine child. Ask them to help you release the past fully, letting them know that you are willing to let go of the physical mother and physical father and any and all issues related to them. Know that as an adult you can connect to the Holy Mother and Holy Father, and to your spirit mother and father, directly
    now.

  26. Take a couple of minutes now in this alignment. There is a matrix of the trinity that has to do with the relationship between Holy Mother, Holy Father, and Christ child (you). Ask these two to work with you and with your guides to restore your sacred trinity connection. As the energy flows into your left hand and up your arm, allow the energy to flow into your heart.

  27. Knowing that these two are there at your beck and call, just release the hand contact now. Thank them for being willing to be your spiritual parents and guides. Take a nice deep breath into your whole body, feeling the connection of your feet to Earth. Ask the guardian beings of the Earth Star Crystal to send a little of that loving Earth Mother energy into your feet. Calling on the Sun, ask the Sun to send some of its golden sunlight carrying the love of the Holy Father. Bring it in through your crown.
    Allow these energies of the Earth Mother and the Sun Father to meet in your heart and blend. Breathe these two energies into your heart until it is full and overflowing.

  28. Bring yourself fully back into the here and now, opening your eyes and returning to the room.

Martijn Vroemen